i'm obsessed

And then she told herself, “Stop being so weak. Grow up and get over it.” and then she never felt anything again.

My desires in a relationship have changed over time. I no longer want someone who promises to always love me and never leave me, I need someone who understands that life happens and sometimes things don’t work out. I don’t want someone who sugar coats things and never gets angry with me, I need someone to tell me how it really is and put me in my place. I need to be able to go five hours without talking to you and not feel lost or incomplete. I am complete without you. But with you, I want to be so much better. I want to be stronger with you. I want us to grow together and help each other grow individually. I don’t need you, but I really fucking want you. And this may not work out, but the fact that you understand all of this and this how our relationship works, makes me think we’ve got a pretty good shot.

If you don’t end up smiling while you are kissing someone, you are probably kissing the wrong person.

In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.